Bullying, Disrespect, and Name-Calling on the TwoMovies site (1497 views, 22 replies)

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I love this site. I love all it has to offer. Unfortunately, more often than not, I witness people being cruel to one another online. It's 2019, I would like to think that as a whole, we have come further than treating each other so petty, especially with all the awareness around bullying nowadays. I had to shut my chat feed off on here just so I could seeing all the ignorant things people say to each other scroll by. Some feel more freedom when they speak from behind a screen and keyboard. Would you say such awful things to each other in person? Maybe, but you are more likely to think about your actions first and worry about your surroundings. If you are in public and walk by someone having a debate you don't agree with, are you going to stop and argue and name call? Everyone is entitled to their opinion, even if the person receiving the opinion doesn't agree it is never an opportunity to be cruel and crass. Most of us here are adults, is this really how as adults we behave? If a person has a child and they get in trouble at school for bullying, is that ok? Do we condone that behavior? No, we don't (most of us anyway). ... We teach them to play nice with others, not to be so thin-skinned, etc. Why not practice what is preached? Just because you are on the internet instead of face to face doesn't mean you are not speaking to a real person with real struggles living a life that maybe is totally different than yours in every way. Maybe they just had a death in the family or found out they have a life-threatening illness and now here you come to make their day worse because they spoke their mind and you didn't like it. Now on top of everything else, they get to deal with you treating them like dirt just because they did what everyone else online does and write their opinion. Rude opinions are another thing. It's great to have a voice. It's also great to use it but when your opinion is written in a way that is extremely hurtful, that isn't okay either. One example I saw on another site was on a video of someone that was in an abusive relationship twice. The person that commented said "It's probably her fault, she should just go kill herself." This is the type of opinion that is hurtful and insensitive so knowing when the right time is to shove your foot in your mouth (so to speak) and realize that maybe even though you have an opinion, it is unnecessary to voice it at such a time or venue. Sometimes people are going to get hurt feelings even if you try to play nice and that is okay too as long as you were kind in your actions and words. You can't make everyone happy but just be the person to NOT want to ruin someones' day. Most people have been on the receiving end of hurtful words, comments, harshly stated opinions, and even violence. If you can agree that you are one of those 'most people', then you know what it is like to be on that receiving end, so why would you want to make anyone feel that way? There are lots of people in this world from all walks of life and it doesn't matter where you are from or what color your skin is, this is something that affects EVERYONE. I was in middle school when the internet was becoming big and it was the cool thing if you had Windows 95, AOL, and knew what yahoo.com was. Since then, I have seen a whole new level of bullying and cruelty emerge. People everywhere are connected by this crazy maze of connections we know as the internet, why are we using it to wedge each other apart because everyone thinks it's okay if they act like jerks? You aren't looking at a screen where EVERYTHING is fake, there are real people here!! Life is too short to be ignorant of the fact that sometimes we don't think before we speak or fly off the handle unnecessarily and that we are sometimes wrong and need to admit it. Making it right is what counts so if you are guilty of being the name caller/bully and this makes you think at all, try to be mindful of what you say in the future because most of the world sees it when you go from site to site spreading hatred and people that come here for friendly conversation and movies also see it. Also, maybe there is someone you could apologize to? Ask yourself if you really enjoy being a bully and if the answer is yes, then maybe it's time to stop bullying and find out why because the fact you enjoy it should raise your eyebrows in concern that something has gone awry with your mental health. If you had a physical issue (ex. your leg falls off), chances are you would seek help for it so treat your mental health the same and find out is wrong to make you enjoy such horrible things such as treating people cruelly. That being said, if your intent is to write cruel opinions that you know are unwarranted, hurtful and you expect the reaction to be many people lashing out at you and causing chaos between others online, remember it's a privilege not everyone deserves. Do you play nice or do you ruin it for everyone? Think before you speak!! Be nice to each other!!!
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One member on here that was getting bullied, when they spoke back, they got banned, why because only a couple of people would stand up for them, which is obviously not enough. Then you get your nazi spell trolls, but once again, people sit back and watch the drama.

Hmm I don't use the "Chat" section much but I do peruse it from time to time and I seldom see bullying. Mild mannered ribaldry yes!
Perhaps you best "Hide Chat"?

There is seldom any observance of ToS and when applied it is unbalanced. Also people get suspended with ZERO notification and proof why they get suspended.

What seems to be the case is a handful of atheists hate Christians and use trolling and bullying on an hourly basis with nothing whatsoever done.

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@AnhedoniaNightmare To be clear: NOBODY wants intercourse with you AN. Also, being an a***ole and hoping someone will stuff yours - are two very different things.

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It's not about so-called comebacks, you nutjob, it's about you and your pathological obsessiveness. Thus in any exchange you have an immature compulsion to ensure you get the last word, which is a mental sickness of some sort, for sure, but worse still it doesn't matter how predictable and boring you are just as long as it's you who finishes the exchange. How childish.

Moreover, you welcome whatever's said about you good or bad just as long it's about you you you. Indeed you've probably got a hard-on and filled your knickers with sperm reading this because it's all about you. Basically you're like a kid trashing his bedroom. You don't actually want to wreck your bedroom because what you really want is a mature person to step in and stop you. All your boring carnage is for show so you get attention from adults. Beyond pitiful.
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Now over to you for your predictable attempt at getting the last last word. Yawn.
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I was informed by Doc that there had been complaints and for that reason I changed a number of things because I thought you had not seen the joke of the cariature of the "Forum Hijcker" just like Freddy Kruger hijacks teenagers dreams and twist and changes them into something they are not and then they die, like the forum threads.

Then I put it on my wall and asked people to comment on the issue. Yours was the only negative comment on the wall and later I saw a similar comment when Doc opened the thread again.

That had nothing to do with me.

The attack was on self-appointed holier-than-thou, douchebags that hijack forums and that seems to be you AN.

The truth hurts, that´s why we make FAKE NEWS on 2MOoOBS

That is the full metaphor explained.

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@AnhedoniaNightmare Truth prevails with sworn worthlessness and escalating annoyance ~ Amen? SEXY!!

Doc once mentioned vote counting. Anightmare amassed an astounding ZERO likes on 'that' epic thread, and I daresay nearly zero on any post since. Not just invisible down votes (we'd love to see those) but a preponderance of nothing+zero. The community has voted.the.fuk outta this verbal jackoff. None appear comfy held hostage for page filler that 'ol holymoley swore to deliver in exchange for pooping in peoples cheerios for his endless info-tainment.

Site Police or freedom? Choose one. I really understand both parties but we prefer not intruding into conversation, at least we act only when things get really hot. But saying that we don't do anything is absolutely not right. Report comments, we check all reports.

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